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Ashley and Zac standing on a balcony in front of a snowy German downtown street.

My husband and I moved to Germany despite never visiting before. Ashley Packard
  • The first time I visited Germany was when I moved there with my husband two years ago.
  • I couldn’t believe how easily accessible and convenient the public transportation system was.
  • I was shocked to find that most stores, including grocery stores, were closed on Sundays.

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In July 2022, I fulfilled my lifelong dream of moving to Europe.

When my husband and I got married in January of that year, we didn’t opt for the typical wedding registry. Instead, we sold, donated, or tossed almost everything we owned. Even our cars — which we sold two days before we left the US — had to go.

We headed to Germany, a country we’d never visited before, with just a few suitcases and our two cats. As soon as we arrived, we noticed a lot of cultural differences.

Here are seven things that surprised us about life in Germany.

Most places don’t have air conditioning.

We had to come up with alternative ways to keep cool. Ashley Packard

After a tiring seven-hour flight from Boston to Frankfurt, a three-hour drive from the airport, and six flights of stairs to our apartment, we arrived in Düsseldorf and quickly learned air conditioning isn’t really a thing in Germany.

The large tilt-and-turn windows in our place didn’t have screens, only metal rolling shutters. This meant we couldn’t open the windows fully for fear our cats would try to go outside.

Instead, we cranked the metal shutters down early in the morning to keep hot air out and then rolled them up at night to allow cool air in.

We also stayed hydrated, added ice cubes to the cats’ water bowls, tried not to use the oven, took cool showers, and ordered a standing fan.

It blew my mind to learn that only about one in eight German households use air conditioning. Still, we had no choice but to adjust to that lifestyle.

Public transit is easily accessible in most major cities.

I haven’t had to drive in Germany during my two years living here. Ashley Packard

Growing up in the Massachusetts suburbs, I relied on my car and only used the train to commute to Boston. Although I have a German driver’s license now, I haven’t driven in the last two years.

My husband and I have moved to a few different cities within Germany, and luckily, we’ve always had easy access to public transportation.

Most stores are closed on Sundays.

Sundays are considered rest days in Germany. Kerstin Waurick/Getty Images

We landed in Germany on a Sunday and soon learned that most shops — even grocery stores — were closed, forcing us to use a food-delivery app.

That’s because Sundays are rest days in Germany. Most people aren’t supposed to work or shop, though there are a few exceptions for touristy spots and gas stations.

Most apartments don’t come with kitchens.

Most German apartments only include an empty room with appliance hookups. hanohiki/Shutterstock

When I was apartment hunting, I was surprised to learn that many rentals didn’t have kitchens stocked with a refrigerator, oven, cabinets, counters, washing machine, or dishwasher. Instead, there was typically only an empty room with appliance hookups.

That’s because, in Germany, tenants often take most of their kitchen with them when they leave, or they sell the major parts to whoever is moving in. This allows tenants to personalize their spaces, can help landlords save on costs, and may encourage tenants to stay longer.

Carrying cash is a necessity.

It’s always a good idea to keep cash with you. Ashley Packard

To avoid fees and security concerns, many restaurants, local businesses, market stalls, and cafés only accept cash as payment.

Luckily, many larger businesses, grocery stores, and malls accept credit and debit cards, as well as other forms of digital payment.

Sparkling water is preferred over still.

Don’t expect to be served water with ice. Ashley Packard

In Germany, restaurants automatically serve sparkling water without ice. If a customer asks for ice in their water, it clearly signals that they’re American.

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